Thoughts and resources to help us cultivate compassion from our incredible speakers.
Compassion Revolution: The Podcast
Each week we dive into what it means to practice love, compassion and courage and all the hard work of showing up to shape a compassion revolution across healthcare.
A revolution calls for people to take action and make change.
This is that call to action.
This week Mary wonders if we are moving from one epoch to another and invites us to change the world (no biggie).
This video was recorded at TEDx Tauranga, NZ. After 10 years spent trying to effect change in health care systems around the world, Robin Youngson has learned that the key to changing people’s minds, no matter your cause, lies in connecting with, not battling against each other.
Does it have to take tragedy, or a disaster for us to feel deeply connected as one species?
Gill Hicks AM
Fiona Kerr will teaches us how part of understanding and valuing the dynamics of human interaction is knowing when it offers advantages over the technology-based interaction which is becoming pervasive in human society. She asks, what is getting in the way, and how do we ensure we connect?
In this video Prof James Doty, Clinical professor of Neurosurgery and the the Founder and Director of the Centre for Compassion and Altruism, Research and Education talk about the challenges of working in a stressful environment and how understanding the science of compassion can help.
True compassion requires empathy: the ability to see the other’s worldview. Sympathy and posturing power plays masquerade as empathy for those looking to check a box. Creating change is much more.
Compassionate people ask for what they need. They so no when they need to, and when they say yes they mean it. They’re compassionate because their boundaries keep them out of resentment.
Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.
One of the criticisms I’ve faced over the years is that I’m not aggressive or assertive enough…or maybe because I’m empathetic I’m weak. I totally rebel against that. I refuse to believe that you cannot be compassionate and strong.
What’s the strongest predictor of patient mortality rates? The % of staff working in well structured teams that have clear objectives and that meet regular and whose members work closely and effectively together.
NHS Staff Management and Health Service Quality
Every time we diverge from the taken for granted way of being in the workforce and enact more compassion it is an act of mighty resistance. This is what it means to be a revolutionary.
It can hurt to go through life with your heart open, but not as much as it does to go through life with your heart closed.
Dr James Doty
When you look up at someone you light up their brain and start synchronising with them. And we each have the power to rewire both our brains, and those of the people we interact with.
Dr Fiona Kerr
Have you been elevated lately? Compassion is contagious and once we start to see good things happen we want to do more of them. We all want to be just like Jacinda Ardern right now.
This week we walk the Connected Hearts labyrinth and wonder about the four steps to compassion.
Prof Helen Sanderson at TEDxUniversityofHertfordshire
The whole world is watching the New Zealand Prime Minister, Jacinda Adern as she steps up and shows us what Compassionate Leadership looks like. I’ve been curiously pulling this apart over the last week to try and understand what it is about her response that is so generative, so brave and fearless and all at once full of tenderness.Read more
Mary goes to the Ben Quilty exhibition and starts to think about how everyone is learning about life, just like the rest of us.
We urgently need to build a world where we are supported and encouraged to notice the distress in ourselves and others and act to alleviate that distress with the support from those around us.
In this episode we meet words that we can carry with us that will help to create a world that is more compassionate, kind and courageous.
This talk was recorded live at Don’t Forget The Bubbles 2017 in Brisbane. Mary Freer discusses compassion in healthcare. Being compassionate means being present, being empathic, and being vulnerable.